Reality sets in ………

At 40’s, people would think we are at the top of our game … have we given any thoughts on that? There is just so much I have embraced and would like to embrace out of life, so being ‘on top of my game’ really depends on what that game is all about. Personally, from my point of view, it is about the miracle of loving myself, spiritual realization, treasuring the gift of family and friends, appreciating the beauty and wonders of nature at each break of dawn and resting of the dusk. Being able to appreciate the true essence of life, something to see, something to do, something to hope and something to be thankful for.

So … each time I blow out the candles on my cake … 41, 42 and blink! 43 and from now on each additional number is a celebration to the gift of ‘life’! I suppose it’s the same with all those around me especially my childhood friends who are in their 40’s today (who enjoyed and are still enjoying the frills of the Flower Power Era!) …. remembering 'Old is Gold!' After awhile we really do stop counting the years and start living them up instead. Sounds good to me!

Hmmm …… and then there is this inevitable bundle of annoying fine lines on the face (trying to put it as mildly as possible!), often cracked feet just in weeks if we missed the heel cream!, silver threads running along the crowning glory, sagging butts and crackling bones … and the list goes on! But what’s that compared to feeling so assured of our inner self because of wisdom and strength. We've been there ~ almost every place, in and out, up and down and yet nailed everything down to experience. Would we rather that or trying so hard to relive our good old 16's and 21's, dressing, walking, talking and thinking … not actually knowing, what the real world can finally bounce back towards our direction whilst we are too carried away on the fast track and ultimately lose track! I found my answer.

When reality of life sets in …… don’t ever run away from it! It is here and now that we truly find ourselves without the layers of our hidden walls and when we finally find it, it’s an immeasurable meaningful journey and experience of life. Never for a moment lose the grip of it but continue on living your life enjoying change from within ... inside, out!

~ We cannot have everything, where would we put it? ~

Friday, 3 August 2012


I always have a great passion for intricate handiwork, because I am an ardent admirer of the arts ~ I believe in anything that we do, it is significant that one places one’s heart in it.

Hence, Tapestry of Life! …. a journey to carve my love for the beautiful wonders of ….. nature in the splendour of flora and fauna, landscapes, oceans far beyond reaching the horizons with silver linings, oil painting, stained glass art, floral art, mosaic art, all that relates to the brilliant colours and weaving of  ~ Tapestry~!

Recalling the events of life, I managed to capture the high altitude far reaching view of my own life … and amazingly I saw the beauty of my journey and how much I have to be thankful for. In so many different ways I have had a rich and meaningful journey and I am truly grateful for these experiences. Still learning, I must say and yes!!! indeed … each day continues to be  a learning experience.

Walking through lives journey and having to turn the pages of pain, mistakes, bad decisions, words and actions, I know that there is this gift for ‘change’. With peace in my heart by the Grace of God, I have walked this journey of life thus far and by the Grace of God I will continue on ...  .

Life is magnified just like a tapestry. It reveals the beauty of the tapestry as it enfolds in real time. Before the beauty is revealed, the back view of a tapestry to the eye is nothing more than a jumble of thread, tangled, occasionally knotted, frayed and seemingly random! Just like life ... with so many unexpected turns and trials.

It’s only when you turn a tapestry over that you see the miraculous beauty, the rich colours, the fine threadwork, texture and the finished patterns that magnifies the astonishing beauty of Tapestry. 

Likewise, God gives us a glimpse of His purpose as He weaves into the fabric of our lives. The gracious peak of glory from nothingness gives us the courage to soldier on knowing that nothing happens by coincidence. No single thread of experience ~ good or bad ~ happy or sad ~ is ever wasted.  Our Beloved Father is weaving each of our life, knowing precisely what He is doing. We need to embrace a glimpse of God’s side of the ‘Tapestry’ in allowing God to finish the finer details of His amazing beautiful work of human art with the palm of His loving hands.

If we could only take a moment to see the Tapestry of Life of which our lives are interwoven our eyes will be opened to the miracles and joy of life. Let It Be! Let God's wisdom flow.

Seek not so soon to disapprove this work nor yet assign with each darker thread, there twines a thread of gold. Spin cheerfully, not fearfully. He knows the way you plod. Spin carefully, spin prayfully. But leave the thread with God.

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Let us for a moment journey back in time to the Flower Power Era as we hold on to the  good old days! Here's to each of you, one of the Best from Beatles!




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3 comments:

  1. cat'n island3 August 2012 at 10:58

    Jerome Noah,
    What a beautiful name. You are every word your Mother has recognised you by. The Light of your Mother's Life upon your birth has been so BRIGHT there was enough light to be shared with the rest of us. Jerome, at 16 years, you have SURVIVED, trully survived. I am a very proud Aunt of a very Blessed Nephew. Wishing you a very BLESSED 16th BIRTHDAY. Have a DAY......you will remember for ALWAYS.
    With all my love and hugs, Aunty Linda.

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  2. cat'n island3 August 2012 at 11:02

    You are not descibed as the 'light' without a reason. May you continue to be a beacon in your mother's life and the lives of those you have touched. Have a great day Jim-Bob! Happy, happy birthday. Love you loads.

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  3. Anonymous3 August 2012 at 13:22

    Dearest Evlyn,

    Congratulations! Bravo! Magnifico!

    Salute!!! to your wonderful and inspiring blog. May all the colourful hues that you weave here turn into a great masterpiece just like yourself!

    "We don't accomplish anything in this life alone.....and whatever happens is the result of the whole tapestry of one's life and all the weavings of individual threads from one to another that creates something."~ Sandra Day O'Connor

    Evlyn dear, as you continue to touch and inspire lives through your amazing spirit and through the gifts and talents bestowed upon you through Abba Father ~ ARISE and SHINE, for your light has come and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you ~ Isaiah 60:1

    May God's blessings be with you always and forever.

    Go forth Evlyn… Let It Be! Let It Be! Let It Be... whisper words of wisdom... Let It Be!

    All my love, prayers and blessings,
    Anne

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